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Dear Jack Kiet,
Here are some of your photos during school sessions. I always enjoy reading their daily reports to learn about your day - what you do, what you learn, are you happy, did you nap...etc.
One of the thing we enjoyed to do together as a family on Sunday morning was having a picnic at the Santa Clara University Mission church side garden. There is a pink magnolia tree there with a bench; I called it our family spot. In spring, the tree would bloom beautifully with all these pink flowers. The grass is always green and soft for you to walk around.
This was in August, and you already knew how to walk for about a month now. You would roam around the garden and checked out all the flowers. I liked how you never tried to grab the flowers but rather just touch them so gently. You were Mama's pride and joy. Of course, my too.
In a blink of an eye, another spring is upon us. Spring is your season, and when spring comes, you’re a year older. Your transformation this past year had been a mixed of fun, emotional, excitement and challenging. On your first birthday, I don’t have much to give but this short poem:
Tôi yêu mùa xuân
Mùa xuân là sự khởi đầu mới
Khởi đầu từ tôi, từ những mầm non
Khởi đầu từ những nụ hoa rực rỡ
Khởi đầu với ngày dài và nắng ấm
Tôi yêu mùa xuân
Mùa xuân là một hi vọng mới
Hi vọng của một thế hệ xáng đẹp
Hi vọng từ những tình yêu đơn giản
Hi vọng từ những giấc mơ ngây thơ
Tôi yêu mùa xuân
Hẹn gặp bạn dưới dàn hoa tím
Hẹn gặp bạn bên cành anh đào
Hẹn gặp bạn trên thảm hoa dại
Hẹn gặp với vòng tay yêu mến
Tôi yêu mùa xuân,
May your life be colorful and vibrant as spring. Open yourself like a flower soaking in the sun. Be happy and bring happiness to others.
Spring came when you arrived and quickly gone. Soon without much notice, summer, too, will end as you grow and grow. In a blink of an eye, you’re now 5 months old. Time fly! In contrast, the first couple of months, some nights seem extremely long and last forever. Looking out at a dark and quite street in the middle of the night while feeding you, I wondered when will all these sleepless nights end? Here’s life lesson for you: everything looks easy until you actually do it. How hard can it be to care for someone? Pretty hard actually. As the youngest member of the Le, I’ve been spoiled with getting away from providing care to others, until you came along. And that changed everything.
As you are adapting and learning the new world around you, we are doing our parts to play catch up and outsmart new changes. From eating habbits to sleeping pattern to diapers blow out, every week comes with surprises. No two days are the same. To stay sane, I keep telling myself this is a marathon and not a sprint. Things will get harder before they get easier. Some of the things we try out of desperation to keep you quiet or to fall asleep include: bouncing up and down the yoga ball, driving around in the car…etc. When all songs are sung, I make up a new one. Here is one of it:
I am little Kiệt with little feet
I will walk million miles
To moon and back
With my little feet
And to be fair to you, each of your new development makes life a little easier for everyone. For example, when your neck gets stronger, carrying you around is much easier. When you get used to the carrier, I am able to take you places like hiking, grocery stores…etc. The biggest benefit for everyone happens when you can recognize day vs. night, and that you can sleep in your own bed from 9-5am without feeding in the middle of the night. For so long, the only way for you to stay asleep is laying on my chest. And now that you can sleep on your own, some nights I awake afraid that I might have dropped you on the floor. It is quite amazing how little things can have long lasting impact.
This week you start on your solid food. It’s time to get messy. You don’t seem to like baby oatmeal so much. Banana, on the other hand, disappears quite quickly. It must be the sugar. Guess what else grows before summer ends? Teeth. 2 lower front teeth and they are quite sharp.
Until autumn, stay health and grow strongly little Kiet.
Near and far, everyone was excited and happy to welcome you on March 16th, 2022 at 1.16pm. You were measured at birth with 22 inches and 9.5 pounds; people considered you as a reasonably ‘big’ baby. Your Vietnamese name is Kiệt. Your name has several meanings and the most important take away I want to emphasize with the name is [masterpiece] – that’s because every living thing on this planet is precious, and every precious creation comes with extreme care and lot of patience. One day, soon, you’ll create your first masterpiece (big or small, or just as simple as your first drawing) you’ll understand all of this.
Growing up and even now as an adult, I’ve spent a lot of time in the hospital for various reasons. I’ve always hate the hospital settings. I am afraid of needles. I can’t stand these tubes and wires all get tangle up around my body. I hate the beeping sound from the monitoring machines. Those 7 days at the hospital to welcome you had somewhat changed my perception about the hospital setting. It’s more than a place for ill people or to say goodbye to someone you love; you can actually say “hello” and “welcome”. Those 2 words are simple and yet packed with so much meaning.
For now little Kiệt, hello and welcome from everyone who has ever known your parent. You’ve brought joy and happyness to everyone through the echo of your first cry. In return, so much love and blessing were poured upon you. From this day on, you should lead a life with purpose and do not take anything for granted.
-Love from everyone